
Author: Oke Ikpekpe, MSc (PH)
Medical Reviewer: Azuka Chinweokwu Ezeike, MBBS, FWACS, FMCOG, MSc (PH)
Rape is any form of sexual penetration (with a penis, finger, object or any body part) into another person’s vagina, anus or mouth without their freely given consent [1]. Consent must be voluntary. It is not consent if it is obtained through force, threats, intimidation, fear, trickery, or when the person is asleep, drunk, drugged or is a minor below the legal age of consent, which is 18 years old.
In sub-Saharan Africa alone, UNICEF estimates that more than 79 million girls and women (over one in five) experienced rape or sexual assault before they turned 18 years old.
Rape can happen to women, men, girls and boys. It can be done by a stranger, a friend, a boyfriend, a husband, a family member or anyone else. No matter who did it or where it happened, it is never your fault. Nothing you wore, said, drank or did caused it. The blame belongs only to the person who harmed you.
Rape is a serious crime and one of the worst violations of a person’s body, dignity and freedom. It is also a major public health problem in many African communities.
Right now, you may feel shock, fear, anger, shame, or even confusion. All these feelings are normal after such a painful experience, but your safety and health come first. You need to move away from danger and seek medical care as soon as possible.
This article is written for survivors, especially those in African countries and the people who love and support them. It is a step-by-step guide on how to stay safe, get medical help, emotional support and preserve evidence.
Rape is traumatic, and the moments afterwards can feel overwhelming. The next sections will walk you through exactly what to do, one small step at a time, to protect your health, your safety and your rights.
Most people who commit rape are known to the survivor, such as friends, co-workers, relatives, teachers, neighbours, religious leaders, partners or even strangers. This means rape can happen anywhere: at home, in school, at work, in the market or in places of worship [1].
Wherever it happened, your safety comes first.
• If you were attacked outside your home, going home may feel safest.
• If the rape happened at home, leave and go to a trusted family member’s house, a friend’s home, a safe house, a shelter, or a place of worship where you feel protected.
If you are still in danger, move away from the person and the place as quickly as you can. Go somewhere you feel secure and surrounded by people who truly care about you, so they can support you emotionally and physically, too.
After an assault, it is completely normal to want to bathe, shower or change your clothes to feel clean again. If you can, please try not to do these things yet. Washing your body or clothes can remove important evidence such as blood, semen, saliva or hair. This evidence can help if you later decide to report the assault.Your next step is to go straight to a hospital or health facility.
• Take the clothes you were wearing during the assault with you.
• If you have already changed, put the clothes in a clean brown paper bag or wrap them in a clean cotton sheet or newspaper.
• Never use a plastic bag because it can damage the evidence [2]. Keeping evidence does not mean you have to report to the police right now or ever. It simply keeps your choices open. If you do choose to take legal action later, this evidence can make your case much stronger [1,2].
It is important to get medical help as soon as possible after a sexual assault. This protects your health, helps prevent infections or pregnancy, and allows injuries to be treated early. Some injuries may not be visible right away, but can become serious if they are not checked [2].
At the hospital, a doctor or nurse will examine you, do some tests, treat any injuries, and provide preventive care. You may receive:
You will also be tested and given medicines to protect your health. These may include [3,4,5]:
You will be offered emergency contraception after a negative pregnancy test. Common options include:
You will have an HIV test, but if testing is delayed, Post-Exposure Prophylaxis (PEP) should still be started immediately. PEP is a 28-day HIV prevention medicine that works best when taken within 72 hours. The medicine may cause side effects such as nausea, but it is important to complete all 28 days.
You may be given medicines to prevent or treat infections that the attacker may have had. These include:
These medicines are safe for both adults and adolescents.
Getting medical care also allows health workers to collect any evidence. A forensic exam (often called a 'rape kit') is done, which involves a head-to-toe examination. During this exam, a specially trained nurse or doctor will collect samples from your body, hair, and clothing. These samples can include things like semen, saliva, skin cells, or hair left by the attacker [6]. These substances contain unique DNA, which is like a genetic fingerprint that can help identify the perpetrator.
The best evidence is collected within 72 hours because the sperm live for about 72 hours, but you can still report and receive medical care after this time [6]. In addition, the earlier the body fluids are assessed, the better the evidence.
Boys and men can also be raped, and the medical steps, emotional reactions, and treatment options are the same. Getting care immediately after sexual assault is one of the most important steps you can take.
Reporting a sexual assault is a personal decision. There is no single correct choice, only the choice that is right for you, and no one has the right to force you to report if you are not ready.Rape is a crime; many African countries now have gender or family support units at police stations where officers are trained to handle rape cases respectfully and confidentially [7].
If you decide to report, it is helpful to do so early because medical checks done soon after the assault make it easier to collect evidence. After giving your statement, the police will take you to a hospital or sexual assault referral centre for treatment and a forensic exam [7].
If you are not ready to report, you can still go directly to a hospital for treatment, PEP, emergency contraception, STI prevention and emotional support. A forensic exam can still be performed to collect and securely store evidence. This preserves your option to report the crime to the police at a later date, as your decisions about reporting can change over time.
Some of the steps to aid your recovery process after the first two days include
Supporting someone who was assaulted is tough, and you might be terrified of saying the wrong thing. Just being present, listening, and showing you care makes a massive difference. Trying to ignore what happened makes them feel so much more alone.
Every survivor is different, but these steps are essential for helping them [1]:
Being supportive, patient, and non-judgmental helps them to feel safer and aids their healing process.
You are a survivor who is not defined by what happened, even though it was cruel and unfair. You still have a bright future ahead of you and are still the strong, vital person you once were.
One of the most important steps you can take after a sexual assault is to seek help as early as possible. Getting medical care quickly protects your health, helps prevent infections and pregnancy, and allows professionals to collect forensic evidence within the best time window. This evidence can help protect your right to seek justice if and when you choose to.
It is possible to heal, and numerous men, women, girls, and boys have travelled this difficult path and gone on to have fulfilling lives. You will as well because your life is precious and you are strong enough to recover and reclaim your future.
If you have experienced rape or any form of sexual violence, help is available. Many hospitals, non-governmental organisations, and helplines across Africa offer free and confidential medical care, counselling, legal support, and safe spaces.
Below are some trusted places you can reach out to [9]:
Nigeria
Mirabel Centre (Lagos)
Provides medical care, forensic exams, counselling, and legal support.
Helpline: 0817 627 5695
WARIF (Women at Risk International Foundation)
Offers medical care, psychosocial support, legal aid, and shelter.
Helpline: 08009210009
Stand to End Rape (STER)
Provides counselling, legal support, and referrals to medical care.Contact: Through their website and social media.
Helpline: 08095967000
Kenya
GVRC – Nairobi Women’s Hospital
Offers free medical treatment, counselling, and legal guidance.
Helpline: 1195
COVAW (Coalition on Violence Against Women)
Provides legal support and counselling.Phone: +254 733 594 794
South AfricaThe Tears Foundation
24/7 crisis support, referrals to clinics, shelters, and police.
Helpline: 08000 83277 WhatsApp: 060 939 1857
Rape Crisis Cape Town Trust
Offers counselling and court support.
Helpline: 021 447 9762
Whatsapp 083 222 5164
GhanaDOVVSU – Ghana Police Service
Handles sexual and domestic violence cases and links survivors to medical care.
Visit any police station and ask for DOVVSU.
Ark Foundation, Ghana
Provides counselling, temporary shelter, and legal support.
Phone: +233 24 377 7773
Rwanda, Uganda & Others
Most countries have special gender desks at police stations, hospitals that provide free initial care, and NGOs that offer counselling and legal help. Survivors can visit the nearest hospital or police gender desk for immediate support.
Note: This is not a full list, but a starting point. Services may vary by location, so it is best to call first to confirm. Government hospitals in many African countries are also required to give free first medical care and link survivors to social workers and the police if needed.
Your safety comes first. Move to a safe place and seek help from someone you trust. Try not to bathe, wash, or change clothes until you get medical care to protect evidence.
Going early helps treat injuries, prevent HIV and STIs, and reduce the chance of pregnancy. It also allows health workers to collect evidence in case you later choose to report the assault.
No. Reporting is your choice. You can receive medical care even if you choose not to make a report. Take your time and do what feels right for you.
PEP is usually a combination of 3 tablets daily for 28 days. It works best when started within 72 hours, so going to a clinic as soon as possible is important.
Disclaimer:
The information provided on this website is for general educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition.
Published December 1, 2025